One of the most important signs of the puberty the sexual desire, the sexual desire (libido sex). Sexual feeling in women, develops gradually. The libido it is necessary to distinguish two different parts: the desire of mutual rapprochement, the desire for sexual intercourse. The women in particular, developed the first.
Characteristics to develop completely independently, without having to another. It's an emotional connection to the person of the other sex the doctor a long time the definition of the "greater love." Because this feeling, the person becomes very close to nice. In contrast to the men, in particular, is of great importance to the desire for the sexual intercourse is to the doctors, than the the sensual element of love. This component includes the desire to acquire individual feelings of enjoyment that arise in the process of intimacy.
So, if the sexual attraction men primarily manifested in a sensual side, and only later (for 21-25 years old) together, the feeling, the love of the friend, then the girls in the presence of the composition to the convergence-of course, not a desire for sexual contact. This desire arises, just months after the sexual family life, often only after the first birth.
So, the structure of the sexual desire of the women to the leader element, at all stages of life, the love, the loved one. Sensual the same ingredient, usually a young woman for a while, even after the sex, and then develops gradually.
Physiological intercourse women
To better understand the mechanism of the sexual contact with the female body, we suggest to familiarize with the anatomy of the female genital organs.
Sexual intercourse (coitus) occurs generally under the influence of the sexual excitement (voluptas), the high point, which is orgasm (orgasm of) after that comes the period of calm (defluvium) that occurs after sexual intercourse. The lack of sexual excitement in women is called frigidity. During intercourse, the male's penis pushes the walls of the casing, and a comprehensive introduction to spend.
The introduction of the penis is facilitated by the ability of the vagina to stretch considerably. Since the onset of sexual excitement before the introduction of the penis into the vagina men the glands of Cooper spilled the secret adhesive, which wets the head of the penis, which is slippery. Substance secreted by special glands in the head which makes the head of fat, which also facilitates the introduction into the vagina.
The large and small lips set in a given tissue is surrounded by connective tissue. During sexual excitement the clogged blood in the outflow, which is terminated, while the inflow continues. The result is a swelling of the clitoris, large and small labia formation of flexible rollers. Thanks to these transformations the access of the vagina becomes free. However, the female prostate, are small glands, the hallway, the cervix emit light, transparent mucus.
During intercourse not only didn't experience any resistance, but on the contrary, it's much easier, friction pain free.
The woman involved in the process: the skin and mucous membranes of the penis rubbing against the transverse folds of the vagina. However, there are involuntary rhythmic contractions of the vaginal wall as a result of the activities of the sphincter. These reductions are especially noticeable before the termination of the swelling of the reproductive organs.
The female orgasm?
If both participants in the intercourse I have a feeling the sensuality as a result of the excitation of nerve cells located at the tip of the penis, the woman at the head of the clitoris, the vagina, the vulva the vagina. Irritation, which are detected by these nerve endings are transmitted to the spinal cord and the brain. These irritations accumulate and increase, until it reaches the excitation, which occurs a number of new reflexes. The last connection to the ejection of the semen in men (ejaculation), as well as the secretion of glands, the cervix, as well as Bartolini glands in women. Ejaculation accompanied by lustful feeling of the orgasm. The origin of the orgasm is not fully known.
Women orgasm there must be enough irritation erogenous zones, and erotic mental preparedness for sexual intercourse. Unlike men, women increase the orgasm is much slower, the decay time is longer. The period of the "peak" orgasm still long both.
Orgasm intensity is highly variable, depending on the temperament and Constitution of man. Orgasm may not occur, reducing the irritability, the relevant parts of the visual hillocks shame that this site or the performance of the cerebral cortex caused by mental factors (indifference, disgust, etc.).
It is worth mentioning that this is unusual, but very powerful feeling of the orgasm as squirt or jet orgasm. This is to make the woman cum fluid: a little fountain of clear liquid spurted out from the vagina during orgasm contractions. This is the fluid formed in special glands, not to be confused with urine. To achieve a strong orgasm with a woman, if the man will stimulate the anterior vaginal wall or the g-spot.
How long is a sex act, if you are a woman?
The usual duration of the sexual contact-from 2 to 6 minutes. However, here the great value has the character of a person. The duration of the sexual contact is also influenced by the interval between sexual contact. Long, sexual content, strong sexual excitement greatly reduce the duration of the sexual contact.
Why during sex, women don't drive?
One of the most severe psychological trauma women may be disappointing in person. Married the person who caused her clear, high feelings, the girl discovers, that is unexpectedly cynical look at the men in the sexual life, in which he played the role of mere instruments of pleasure.
It is therefore particularly important that the ratio of male to female during sexual intercourse. Rudeness and tactlessness, discovered that her husband during the first sexual intercourse creates in women a negative reflex to sexual acts. If the following links don't make positive changes, this reflex becomes abnormal, which further sexual frigidity. The most careful attitude to a young girl who has not had sexual intercourse.
If still a virgin, I can feel the fear of the first sexual intercourse. Therefore, it is not free, whatever it was, to achieve his wife's first sexual intercourse for sure, to the "first night" quietly to wait a few days to process every day, the woman's fear.
In this respect, the girls, who are married, the doctors conduct interviews, explain to them that losing your virginity is not a disaster, since it often seems to be a few. The hymen is very rarely solid. Basically there is a hole. If the shape of the hymen is such that the sexual act is a violation of the integrity, the first sexual act she's working; this marked a slight pain. The bleeding that occurs in these cases, insignificant.
Injury during sex
Complications, and trauma during sexual intercourse may also occur in both men and women. Sometimes the woman during intercourse can also be significant damage to the genital tract. The breaking of the hymen depends on the degree of mechanical. The results of this damage are varied: the hymen tears, wounds, even the distance to the hymen, primarily in the rectum Class.
These injuries occur due to stamping and stretching-with the introduction of the penis into the hole in the hymen. The edges of the hymen in this case pressed inwards due to the distension and rupture.
Breaks during sexual intercourse may also occur in different places, but most commonly these 6. figure (the exact marking of incomplete has traditionally been to portray them, dial in), or on the side. When rupture of the hymen 6 hours, sometimes roughly finished sexual intercourse, in addition to the hymen, tear in back wall of the vagina, especially mucosa. The severe degree of immaturity of the reproductive organs such damage was a complete rupture of the perineum, or vaginal walls, arches.
The childish women, which is a consequence of the underdevelopment of the reproductive organs, and the elderly, as well as the old - the result of atrophy and fragility of the tissues.
There are also complications, such as convulsive reduction of the female vagina, which is so strong, a thin member was the first part, especially the head, swell significantly, member states have been involved in the vagina. In these cases, the woman is put anesthesia or eliminate the infringement of a warm bath.
Sometimes during sexual intercourse, difficulties arise in connection with the dryness of the vaginal mucous membrane in case of violation of the secretion of Cowper's glands, or special glands. In these cases, the dry mucosa before intercourse it is advisable to moisten by smearing a fat emulsion, ointment or saliva.
Rare, but still happens catastrophic complications during sexual intercourse than death. The death in connection with the sexual intercourse occurs during or shortly after often in men than in women, the elderly, patients with multiple cerebral and coronary arteries, especially if it was preceded by overeating or the consumption of alcohol. The death may also be the result of a stroke, heart attack, pulmonary embolism, heart failure, and tuberculosis - severe pulmonary bleeding.
In some cases, gynecologists and forensic doctors, to deal with the complaints of the people, especially this happens, the families, the preaching of Islam. Yesterday, after the wedding night, he accused the wives of fraud regarding little or total absence in the blood. In their opinion, this fact proves that a long time violation of the hymen. However, the test in such cases is almost always shows that men are misled due to the presence of the wife of such forms of the hymen, which is the anatomical characteristics of the opportunity to the sexual intercourse without integrity violations. If the hymen is very low, the discharge of blood from the surface of the tears is too small, or not at all.
The obstacles to the sex of the women: vaginismus, the infantilizmus, the genital organs, severe atrophic processes them, the ugliness, the development of the external or internal genital organs (vagina, vagina), inflammation, tumors, etc.